I admittedly have hetro- normative bias.I still think Lucianite not going along with the original argument which is the fluidity if sexuality and urges even among publicly "straight" married people.
maybe. and then they hit puberty.
People are definitely influenced by what society accepts. Thats why many men and women who identify as straight have had some sort of consensual same sex interaction. However, they are still heterosexual, its not a regular thing for them but an experimental one.
There we go, people can stop asking him whether he is gay/bi/etc. now.
They didn't. They just reinforced it. Like the Muslims. The rejection of homosexual behavior as a whole is more complex than what we think of in the West today.Does everyone understand and know how White colonists introduced Homophobia to Afro-peoples?
I am still exploring and experimenting, my sexuality is still not defined but definitely more stable now than lets say a couple years ago, still not on the simplistic viewpoint of bi and gay or str8.Make up yuh mind are you GAY or Bi :wizard:
I am still exploring and experimenting, my sexuality is still not defined but definitely more stable now than lets say a couple years ago, still not on the simplistic viewpoint of bi and gay or str8.
i know more of what i like, what turns me on, i definitely know i will not be able to be in a committed marriage because my sexual needs will not be fulfilled unless my wife is very freaky.
i am really enjoying this process of really knowing what i like, i want to get an aneros soon, where i can try to achieve a super Orgasm, some of the guys who have experience this, see it as an otherworldly experience and advocated for using it.
I may not come to a conclusion soon but definitely more aware of myself now, i want to feel every ounce of sexual fulfillment possible.
not bowing to heteronormative pressures because sometimes this is what i yearn for!Yo u got issues
You are bisexual because you are "experimenting" with men and women unless you are leaving something out
Sounds like you are having random sexual experiences without relationships
You might want to get some psych help to address your aversion to relationships and ust chasing some super sexual gratification.
With the right person your sexual needs should be met
Plus you are talking about a " wife". It seems you are bowing to hetro normative pressures.
Homophobia was seeded in those Abrahamic religionsThey didn't. They just reinforced it. Like the Muslims. The rejection of homosexual behavior as a whole is more complex than what we think of in the West today.
In fact I would say the word homosexual has done more to shape that sort of structure in modern society than anything.