ah.. operative words "Better deal" .. and the question is the better deal for who?
No, the operative words are no impediment nor disadvantage.ah.. operative words "Better deal" .. and the question is the better deal for who?
I guessed. And I don't see your answer as that of a person in love.i didnt say anything about gender.. so i can't see how you can opine that i'm stuck on something that i didn't mention.. if i'm already established in my job with years, my pension etc etc.. why would i move to canada for you to start over? no... you move here, since you will be starting anywhere you go... but under all the ole talk, that's really a decision for the two people to make, based on what they value, who is willing to take the L, better job opportunities etc etc...
Let's keep it simple though, we're assuming good situations here (One person's money can take the load for more than a reasonable period, you're considering marriage.. blah blah). None of that war stuff.let's put it like this.. love does invoke martyrdom. At the end of the day, you have to make the decisions that are best for you...if the person you love wanted to go and live in war torn Burundi on some kinda humanitarian tip.... does that mean that you would say damn it I love you and pack up your life and move behind them? not necessarily.. you'd have to weigh the opportunity cost of moving to Burundi.. and if it's something you've always wanted to do... then do it... if not.. take a rain check.. it's nice to talk about these things but when you actually have to make those decisions it's a totally different matter altogether..
dont do it :no2:I am a Trinidadian livng and working in texas right now i have a guy that lives 280 miles round trip and every weekend he drives come to my job and i spend my off day at his home then he drives me back now he wants me to move to his home we been dating 8 months would i move or not I love my job give it up suppose i dont get another job and for him he accustom living alone loving someone and moving in with them I have to think about that a good long time and if it love i move in and if it not love i stay where I am.