Ok, I do get your point and in general I agree. I think w/ this specifically, the reason why it comes off badly in my mind and others is because of the price difference in preparing 100% organic...if that's not in a person's budget, you risk making someone bad..like what they have isn't good enough.because as a host you need to take your guests into consideration (even though you cant cover 100% of the people 100 of the time). that is why you should never be offended if your guests are trying to cover themselves. I cannot for the life of me see why any host would be offended other than that person being a poor host. if I cant ask you what's in your food or how your food is prepared, etc without issue then why would I want to eat from you.
no thank you.