duuhhhhh... My comment was not about how i see fatherhood.. It was about how a grown ass gold diggin woman saw green, locked in on a MINOR and made sure she made a baby with him as insurance...It is good to know how some men see fatherhood. Not nurturing and raising a child that he created out of lust and carelessness but money for eighteen years. Fatherhood does not end when a child becomes 18. It should be a life long bond that is not just about sending a check. If a man (or woman) is not ready to be a parent for life, then she should be celibate or use reliable birth control.