I've got a friend that I suspect is gay but don't know how to ask... We're grown and all that but it adds more pressure to me asking because if he's gay I'm still his friend but if he's not..... Suggestions?
if he's not, why would he be offended? All this metro sexual bs leaves :scratch to be open..Does he know that you don't have a problem with homosexuality? Just ask dude :drag:I've got a friend that I suspect is gay but don't know how to ask... We're grown and all that but it adds more pressure to me asking because if he's gay I'm still his friend but if he's not..... Suggestions?
:kicksKiss him and if he box yuh down .Not gay , if he kiss back gay and you two would make great lovers
Why, my definition of being GROWN is being mature...what characteristics does he portray that leads you to believe he is gay? If u've been friends for so long, i would think u have the right to ask, especially if its not a problem for you, u just want to kno...like me, i'd like to know, cause i wanna to know who to bring u around since i have so much diversity in my friend circles...i don't want to make nobody feel uncomfortable.. no biggie :drag:Minx, if someone that I'm cool with ask me like that I'd cut that dude off.
Qualities that I think he might be gay:
1. I've never been introduced to any females when I'm in town......No female friends either!!!
2. Not one picture with him embracing a women with a romantic vibe.
3. Have only met male friends and "roommates".
Now these things aren't the answer but it paints a picture.
i have a friend that i KNEW was gay...i have gaydar :grin: but he was afraid to come out...used to say all kina ting like, "i feel like when i see my wife i would know it" blah blah blah, i'd be like :mda:...so, we would go out erry once in a while and he would be ALL up on me, like i was his chance to appear to be str8...i mean follow me to the bathroom, dancing, he wouldn't let me breathe and one day i was like "bruh, ur gay ass is cock blocking me...accept who u are and move forward to make urself happy, fuk errybody else" That was yeeeeeeears ago...Today, he's still not OUT OUT but he's dating...its tuff for some, but as long as he knows that his relationship won't change with u, i don't see the problem.