Single Ladies Of Imix Who Give Advice To Other Women In Relationships....

OverLord Strum

New member
What makes it ok to do this?

Because she is your friend and you care about her? What about for women who aren't your friends? Your previous experience qualifies you?

Fellas feel free to chime in on said matter :hi:
 

agroDOLCE

SweetfuhDayz
i'll state my opinion if asked. when i tell my friends things, i always try to put myself in the situation and speak from my experience in relationships. no two situations are the same though (obviously). i always end what i say w/ something like, "you know yourself and the person you're with better than i do. you have to do what you're comfortable with." i know that at the end of the day, i'm not the one dealing w/ the consequences of whatever actions my friend decides to take.

besides, i'm not one who is quick to say stuff like, "you need to do xyz b/c of such and such..." now if dude is abusing her, that's a diff story
 
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Juan Dan

Guest
What makes it ok to do this?

Because she is your friend and you care about her? What about for women who aren't your friends? Your previous experience qualifies you?

Fellas feel free to chime in on said matter :hi:
there are not many real conversations on himix anymore
for example I was reading bout the daddy n outside pikney situation
and said damn no wonder they wouldnt want me to come into a thread like that cause such and such seems like such a damn bish
then I kept on reading and realized I too am selfish and even though I dont like my father, if I did then no other kids could come around
in any case whole point being sometimes "we think we know yet have no idea"
its said the site is boring yet its simply people are scared to be themselves
cause the bullshit they were pretending to be years ago does not hold up at this time

all in all if my wife have a blak single female fren me divorce har
 

Georgeflash

Who feels it knows it!
I think the amount of advice dished out by single females is directly proportional to the number of failed relationships these women have had.

Who better to give advice than people who have had ZERO success at maintaining an adult relationship.
 

MÉCHANT LOUP

Cervical Cancer
there are not many real conversations on himix anymore
for example I was reading bout the daddy n outside pikney situation
and said damn no wonder they wouldnt want me to come into a thread like that cause such and such seems like such a damn bish
then I kept on reading and realized I too am selfish and even though I dont like my father, if I did then no other kids could come around
in any case whole point being sometimes "we think we know yet have no idea"
its said the site is boring yet its simply people are scared to be themselves
cause the bullshit they were pretending to be years ago does not hold up at this time

all in all if my wife have a blak single female fren me divorce har
makes a lot of sense....lol
 
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Juan Dan

Guest
makes a lot of sense....lol
I am very serious
"lets go to the club"
"na huh fuk on dat nugga"
"oh girl he like you, look like he paid, he cute, he a player, he a huslahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"
"you better have my back gainst these bishes we bout to wreck this school/club/church"
"cant no nugga ask me how many nuggas I done fokd dats my biz"
"fok men lets be celebate"
"fok men lets be bisexwals"
"dats wite peole shit"
blah blah blah blah blha blah blah blah
 

MÉCHANT LOUP

Cervical Cancer
I am very serious
"lets go to the club"
"na huh fuk on dat nugga"
"oh girl he like you, look like he paid, he cute, he a player, he a huslahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"
"you better have my back gainst these bishes we bout to wreck this school/club/church"
"cant no nugga ask me how many nuggas I done fokd dats my biz"
"fok men lets be celebate"
"fok men lets be bisexwals"
"dats wite peole shit"
blah blah blah blah blha blah blah blah


Buh, jigga....

one can state that what you described above is merley/purely "HOODRATZ" sh!t.

Avoid Hoodratz, and you will not have that issue.


Buh, it leads me to ask....

For every ten women, how many are pure hoodratz?

Followed by how many are Semi-Hoodrat?

and lastly, How many adopt/utilize Hoodrat tendencies when necessary?

Probably, only "2.5" of the ten women...that the three above questions doesn't apply to, or have any relevance to whatsoever.

 
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Juan Dan

Guest
Buh, jigga....

one can state that what you described above is merley/purely "HOODRATZ" sh!t.

Avoid Hoodratz, and you will not have that issue.


Buh, it leads me to ask....

For every ten women, how many are pure hoodratz?

Followed by how many are Semi-Hoodrat?

and lastly, How many adopt/utilize Hoodrat tendencies when necessary?

Probably, only "2.5" of the ten women...that the three above questions doesn't apply to, or have any relevance to whatsoever.

well have you taken into account CULTURE?
that which is followed blindly and subconsciously and represented as a say for example "strong black woman"
EXACTLY what did/does that mean

its not really race
its all CULTURE and most importantly THEIR MOTHERS

the mothers are very very very very important

hence what is ones culture
the norm

I will even go this further

older black men on average DO NOT have good things to say about black women?

am I wrong?

so now if thoes things can be experienced in all cultures and peoples then fine
yet certain things are specific to certain peoples and mindsets

for example jamaican women are said by many to be tricky etc stereotypes
trini women white liver etc etc

stereotypes are there for a reason
they are usually followed by or fit the many/majority
 
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Juan Dan

Guest
I have been meaning to ask for a while

on average

from whom you have known

do you think older blak men respect blak women

on some real love and care shit

recently I have REALLY listened to the opinions of some 40 somethings and up and its not very favorable

so that might answer your question a bit

so many complain bout women leaving them and ruin their lives
HJAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHHHAAHAHA
"ooman wikkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkked"-sadblakman
 

OverLord Strum

New member
I have been meaning to ask for a while

on average

from whom you have known

do you think older blak men respect blak women

on some real love and care shit

recently I have REALLY listened to the opinions of some 40 somethings and up and its not very favorable

so that might answer your question a bit

so many complain bout women leaving them and ruin their lives
HJAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHHHAAHAHA
"ooman wikkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkked"-sadblakman


I have noticed that as dudes get older...they stop womanizing either completely or as much. Maturity/experience/focking up has humbled many dudes I know.

Some older men may berate and shake their head at younger dudes...but they should ask themselves...what were THEY doing at their age. Were they perfectly behaving gentlemen? :fool:

Some intellectual nourishment...

The best stone throwers live in mansions made of glass.
 
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Juan Dan

Guest
I have noticed that as dudes get older...they stop womanizing either completely or as much. Maturity/experience/focking up has humbled many dudes I know.

Some older men may berate and shake their head and younger dudes...but they should ask themselves...what were THEY doing at their age. Were they perfectly behaving gentlemen? :fool:

Some intellectual nourishment...

The best stone throwers live in mansions made of glass.
oh yeah
there is something about RIGHTS and INDEPENDENCE
I try to be a fair person
and if for years women in kitchen and on knees scrubbing floor
and that doesnt have to happen anymore
its kind of like the women were henslaved and they were granted emancipation or fought for it
seems many women are walking away from the house or plantation

yet as with all things
with power comes true revelation of nature

and the men seem to be losing the battle

yet yes I have noticed it a lot

yet AGAIN let me not get into the TYPES of women these men are so against

if a woman has no problem with her man having ten women or beating her or coming home drunk
then all is well

yet that CULTURE whether it be blakman culture or caribbean man culture
the women not dealing with it

know like how some men say "REAL MAN dont push baby pram, real man dont wash plate, real man dont clip toe nail etc etc"
 

MÉCHANT LOUP

Cervical Cancer
well have you taken into account CULTURE?
that which is followed blindly and subconsciously and represented as a say for example "strong black woman"
EXACTLY what did/does that mean

its not really race
its all CULTURE and most importantly THEIR MOTHERS

the mothers are very very very very important

hence what is ones culture
the norm

I will even go this further

older black men on average DO NOT have good things to say about black women?

am I wrong?

so now if thoes things can be experienced in all cultures and peoples then fine
yet certain things are specific to certain peoples and mindsets

for example jamaican women are said by many to be tricky etc stereotypes
trini women white liver etc etc

stereotypes are there for a reason
they are usually followed by or fit the many/majority
lol....well, dysfunction knows no color. Yet, its perpetuated in Black People culture....more villains, than heros.
 
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Juan Dan

Guest
lol....well, dysfunction knows no color. Yet, its perpetuated in Black People culture....more villains, than heros.
yes thats my main issue
the numbers that fulfill the stereotypes

for example
MORE SO THAN MY WITE FRENS

mostly EVERY SINGLE blak girl who grows with a lotta brothers etc says "I dont trust men"

mostly EVERY SINGLE blak man who grows around sisters or many women says "I dont trust women"

there is something that underlying that is not discussed openly

whether one wants to blame slayvery or whatever
there is an issue that is underlying and its not talked about and prolly never will

yes there are many "hoes" yet on a stereotypical level
blak men MORE SO than blak women "keep it real" in negativity

in which that negative is viewed as a positive

"I got twenty gal"
"I fokd twenty thousand women"
"I got 10 kids"
"I am a joe grine fokking peoples wives"

lets not get into the violence

yes there are other men like that
yet chances are HIGH you will run into a blakman with that EXACT mentality
 
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