Idk. As I grow older I see much more value in traditional gender roles and gendered skills, and its sad how many people can't cook, can't fix shit, keep a dirty house, etc. American society is a society of overgrown children.
i had an economics professor years ago that said as the value of women's time increased, it became less worth it to them to cook in individualist societies like the US. And I'm assuming men only somewhat took up the slack. So white people just don't cook "/